Domina Carmen

In BDSM there are mind opening and spiritual training catalysts.  Yet bondage and discipline, Domination and submission, and sadomasochism are not only viewed as a tool of learning, but also as an enjoyable pastime.   As a Dominant sadist, leather fetishist and body modification practitioner I love to see a novice walk into my dungeon with all the new explorations that lay ahead.   Equally, I adore the experienced submissive who knows how to properly show respect.  My sessions are designed for everyone from the serious lifestyle submissive to the fun loving explorer.  I excel at inventive scenes and revel in my ability to create atmospheric intensity.  To see the human form in bondage is one of my greatest delights which is only surpassed by the pleasure I take from putting them there.  I love to see a submissive writhe and cringe with each of my skillful inflictions.  I am largely amused by the gauntlet of humiliations I put some submissives through.  As a Goddess I adore a well trained servant.   Submissives I allow into my dungeon that I take most pleasure from are those who are respectful, receptive, obedient, responsive, open, and humble.  Individuals and couples are always welcome.

By communing with my true nature as a Dominant Woman and developing an understanding of each submissive, I can distinctly identify each individual's personal path within BDSM.  My vast knowledge of the psychology within BDSM gives me a superior insight into each submissive's individual interests.  In this way, each submissive is specifically trained, a chosen few moving on to  slave status.  I have a handful of loyal slaves who cater to my needs and whom I am quite fond.  They attained this status through my intensive slave training techniques built on a foundation of trust, uninhibitedness, behavioral modification, and spirituality.  I have no use or need for sex slaves.  This is not a domain I will even discuss.  

Areas I Will Not Engage In
Though I have chosen fields of expertise, I enjoy the full spectrum of bondage and discipline, Domination and submission, and sadomasochism.  Outside of the obvious list of no's, there are a few areas I absolutely will not entertain the idea of:   scat, breast/ass/genital worship or sex-slavery.  Yet outside those specifics, a submissive is allowed to inquire.  Some submissives simply do not have the chemistry to be in my dungeon.  They may have a different interpretation of what BDSM entails.  It is pertinent that I forge a connection with each individual on a common mental level of interest.  I see no point in pursuing a Domme/sub relationship with someone who does not share a common goal.  Simply put, if I don't enjoy it, I won't do it.

Specialties
As a respected sadist, I have established my field of expertise in corporal punishment.  The level of a masochist can slowly and progressively accrue to the point of severe corporal, varying from spanking and trampling to lashings (whipping, flogging, caning, etc.) and airflow play.  It is within this realm of "trance"  BDSM that the most profound insights are found and the strongest bonds between Dominant and submissive are formed (and the most fun is had).  Once I have established a foundation of trust with a good slave, there are sub-categories of corporal torture which we can then delve.   Through the foundation I have laid with My unique slave training methods, My slaves eventually attain a high degree of masochistic endurance and awareness.

Humiliation is also a specialty of Mine.  Through this medium of domination I can touch on some of the inner-most fears and anxieties of a submissive and bring them to light.  Everything from verbal ammunition to physical defamation catapults the submissive into a frame of mind where it is easier to touch on vulnerabilities, and in this way attune Myself with them.

Other areas of expertise include yet are not limited to:  body modification, financial domination, electrical, CBT, edge play, slave training, mummification, energy work, behavioral modification, suspension, smoking scenes, ritual/tantric, single-tail whipping, play or permanent piercing, sensory deprivation/overload, fire play, colonics, maid training, forced feminization (feminization fantasies), nipple torture, foot worship, trampling, cupping, golden showers, key holding/chastity, tickling and psychological torment.

Here is a general list of interests.

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